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How to curate your little loves wardrobe for ultimate style, fun and longevity!

April 23, 2021 · Life Style

We’ve all been there. Where’s there? That place where we have hit the buy now button on a million impulse buys that seemed like a good idea at the time but now you or your little love have NOTHING TO WEAR.

Why? When you lay their items out in the cold light of day, they miss the mark somehow. Maybe it’s the cut or quality you are having second thoughts on. Or, there’s no synergy with the way they fit together for complete looks. Or, maybe you thought your little one would love them, only for them to refuse to wear it (EEEEK!)

Fast fashion has programmed us to mindlessly buy. It has disconnected us and our children from what we wear. It has eroded the value of fashion. Who cares if they don’t wear it when it only cost $15? Well, how many of those $15 purchases are going to waste? End up sitting crumpled in the bottom of the wardrobe? Fall apart on the first wash? End up in landfill? Fill op shops completely orphaned because no one else wants them?

And what do our little ones learn? That fashion doesn’t matter. That items are disposable. That everyone looks the same. That they have to be a slave to trends and continual wardrobe attrition is a way of life.

It feels numb. Empty. Alone.

Here at Stella Phoenix, we want you and your little one to experience the joy of beautiful pieces.

Wearing them.

Exploring them.

Learning about style. And identity. And how to express yourself through what you wear.

We want them to understand how to be their own fashion icon in a way that feels good for them and positively supports them to be brave enough to be themselves. After all, fashion is an art form. It’s a personal expression and celebration of who you are. It’s something to be loved and shared and valued and passed down. It’s an opportunity to tell stories, to re-live precious memories and milestones.

We understand it can be hard to know where to begin with changing the way you shop and value fashion. It can be hard to slow down. But, the truth is you don’t need MORE.

The customers of ours who get the most out of their wardrobes, and that of their little ones, are those who curate. We’d love to share some tips with you so you can learn how to do this too (and if anyone has any other tips, please feel free to share!)

Disclaimer: curating a wardrobe sounds like a lot of work, particularly for parents who are short on time. However, the investment upfront will save you time and stress later.

Rather than a process or a chore, it will become a way of life. Before you know it, you’ll be picking up the most amazing finds and always have that perfect piece at your disposal. Your wardrobe will become your own personal collection. You will be driving your shopping, instead of it driving you. Bliss!

How to curate your little ones wardrobe:

    1. Choose a colour palette

      The cool thing about colour is that you really don’t have to follow many rules with this. If you want to focus on seasonal colour trends, sure. If you don’t want to, great. If you want to blend a mixture of both, go for gold! The colour palette is yours and yours alone.

      For example, who says that all baby suits need to be pastel pink?

      Think about what colours you are gravitating towards. How they reflect where your little one is in their life. The story they will tell about them. Consider the colours they already have in their wardrobe and how the new palette will fit in. Don’t be afraid to be brave with colour, but ensure whatever you choose is cohesive.

      For example, are you going to go for earthy or pastel tones? Or bright colours? Is there a way you could add a bright colour here or a disco shimmer there that will be a cool complimentary twist?

      The colour palette forms the basis of the pieces you will search for. Depending on what you discover, you might evolve it. It’s a fluid tool, but a good starting place.

    1. Include your little one in the selection process

      It goes without saying that the garment will get so much more use if your little love is invested in it too. This means the cost per wear will go down. Play towards their interests and encourage them to experiment and explore with their clothes.

      Ask her what she thinks of different pieces and looks, gain her buy-in and pay attention to what’s important to her.

      Think about her wardrobe as a set of experiences. If she likes being a Princess, consider pieces that feed into her creativity. If she likes to be a superhero or a rock star, do the same.

      Consider any sensory issues (if your child has them). Don’t be afraid to ask brands about the placement of tags or how they line their garments to make sure it will be comfortable and enjoyable. Pay attention to fabrics to ensure they are soft and won’t be irritating.

      Create a list of non-negotiables based on what’s important to both of you. For example, ethically made pieces or what fabrics you will enjoy (for example, if you hate ironing, linen will drive you insane. You may prefer cotton blends!)

    1. Buy statement pieces as well as great quality neutral basics

      Focus on high quality statement pieces that enable you to create lots of different looks depending on how you style them. The more versatile the better as you are able to have more wow factor while buying less.

      The key is to think about longevity and transition through seasons, moods, events.

      Research different looks and layering techniques to see what catches your eye. Spend time playing fashion stylist with your little one and seeing how many beautiful new looks you can create!

    1. Don’t go overboard on bold patterns

      Matching pattern on pattern can be tricky so keep bold patterns limited. This will make it easier to mix and match. If you like a pattern go for tonal prints or jacquards with a select few statement patterns so mix and match is easier.

    1. Spend time researching and exploring new brands

      Think about ways you can go about discovering new brands and make a list of your go-to favourites. This gets you out of the endless mindset of going back to the same ol, same ol and empowers you to find quirky, unique and good quality brands that will have your little love jumping for joy or strutting with confidence in her new outfit.

    1. Arrange your child’s wardrobe by size

      Once you’ve found all your beautiful pieces, this is a handy tip that will enable you to get the most out of the smaller sizes before they grow out of them. If you’re buying good quality and versatile pieces, they will last through seasons and be able to be packed away as keepsakes or passed along as treasured family heirlooms.

Happy curating!

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We provide a comprehensive size chart on our website to help you choose the correct sizing. Please refer to our size chart prior to making a purchase as we are unable to exchange sizes due to limited stock availability.

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If you have received a Product with a fault, damage or defect, please contact us immediately at [email protected] and provide evidence of the fault, damage or defect along with proof of purchase.

The faulty Product must be returned to us prior to us processing your exchange or refund. 

To return the Product to us, please arrange to post the Product to us by registered post so that the Product can be tracked. In the event the Product is deemed to be faulty, damaged or defective, we will refund your return postage costs, so please keep your receipts. We won’t refund return postage costs of products that aren’t faulty, damaged or defective.

If the Product is confirmed to have a major fault, we will repair (if possible), exchange or provide a refund for the Product to your original payment method, as elected by you. 

If the Product has a minor fault, we will offer a store credit if a replacement is not available due to stock limitations or a full refund at our discretion.

Please allow up to 10 days for the refund or exchange to be processed.

Nothing in this clause is intended to exclude any of your statutory rights as a consumer under Australian Consumer Law.

While it is always our aim to minimise impact to customers, given the unprecedented impact of Coronavirus, there have been some temporary service interruptions to our business (like with many other businesses).

Stella Phoenix has stringent quality control and safety practices to keep our staff, contractors and customers as safe as possible. COVID-19 has affected our business in a number of ways, including fabric shortages, supply chain issues, limitations on business activities such as photoshoots, participation in fashion shows and other events, manufacturing and also worldwide shipping delays and
cancellations. COVID-19 has caused a global reduction in flights. Subsequently, all locations are likely to have shipping delays, including express post in Australia. We ask customers to factor in potential delays when they place their order and to understand we cannot guarantee usual shipping times. We are also unable to guarantee an item will arrive on or before Christmas Day.

In addition, in the current climate, shipping routes are subject to be cancelled by postal carriers and couriers due to COVID related challenges without notice. The following shipping routes have been temporarily cancelled:

  • Australia to Canada
  • Australia to China

Please note from 15 December 2021, for customers who order from these destinations, we will make your items and securely hold them until these shipping routes re-open. We will keep you updated on developments.

Despite the significant increase in shipping costs, we will continue to cover shipping on full priced statement pieces over AUD$129 as an ordinary part of shopping with us. Please note this policy is subject to change.

We thank all of our customers for their continued understanding and support while we do our best to continue to serve you during this time while managing a fluid and often ambiguous global climate.

Made-to-order is the future of fashion. Ethical and sustainable fashion is good for humanity, the environment, local jobs and our global communities. In line with these values, Stella Phoenix is now only releasing items for purchase via made-to-order whereby a customer submits their order and payment, and Stella Phoenix will subsequently make the ordered item/s. Stella Phoenix will provide an estimated timeframe for your items to be manufactured [which is currently 10 business days from the date we receive your order] and shipped, however we cannot guarantee manufacturing or shipping timeframes and have no liability for such delays. Please note: an order is not considered received until we have confirmed it via email and received payment. We may, from time to time, release samples, or other ready made items, at our discretion, where it doesn’t compromise our values.

All garments have a care label and care instructions are also available on our website. Customers are responsible for following the care instructions correctly. Stella Phoenix will not accept return of items where damage has occurred due to incorrect cleaning or care.


Stella Phoenix generously provides free express shipping on all orders delivered within Australia totalling more than AUD $129. For orders totalling less than this amount, a flat rate of $10 will apply for express postage.


Stella Phoenix generously provides free standard shipping on USA and Rest of World orders totalling more than AUD $129. 

For orders totalling less than this amount, the following flat rates will apply for standard postage:

NZ: AUD $15

Asia, USA and Canada: AUD $15

Rest of World: AUD $25

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Customers will receive an email confirming who is managing the delivery of their order, along with a tracking number. If your parcel does not arrive as expected, your first port of call is to contact the courier company or mail carrier, quoting your tracking number. If unresolved to your satisfaction, please make contact with us as a second step.

Stella Phoenix is not liable for delays or failure in delivery for circumstances that are outside our reasonable control (including third party policies and processes). For example, error or omission by courier companies/mail carriers or customs/importation processes. We are also not liable for delivery issues associated with limited access to the property or inaccurate/incomplete contact/address information provided by customers.

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Delivery timeframes are approximate and provided as a guide only. Actual delivery times will depend on the courier service and your location.

We estimate our orders will be made in 10 business days from the date we receive your order. It will be packed and shipped by us within 1-2 business days of receiving the finished item/s from our sewing team.


We use Express post. Once shipped, please allow 1-3 days for Australia Post to deliver your order.

Rest of World

International deliveries will be sent via DHL and may take 7-14 business days depending on where you are located.

We recommend our customers make adequate time allowances for shipping delays when ordering to avoid disappointment. If your order is urgent, please email us at [email protected] prior to ordering.

The order price does not include or cover any applicable importation charges, taxes and duties for customers in the country where the order is to be delivered. The customer is responsible for such taxes and duties. Stella Phoenix has no control over customs or importation processes specific to each destination. We are not liable for customs delays or non-delivery of items due to customs policies and processes.

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Only approved Stella Phoenix wholesalers are permitted to wholesale our product.
All orders placed with Stella Phoenix are for domestic use and products must not be resold unless previously organised.

Any retailer interested in wholesaling Stella Phoenix pieces is required to fill out a Wholesale Application Form.

Approved retailers will be required to sign a Stella Phoenix Wholesale Agreement. All terms and conditions pertaining to our wholesale relationship will be as per this agreement.

Please note that minimum order amounts apply and product must be paid for upfront. Stella Phoenix does not wholesale on consignment. For drop shipping arrangements, product must be paid for upfront and a quarterly warehousing management fee applies.

If retailers wish to avoid this fee, it is recommended they ship the product upon purchase and manage their own warehousing.

Stella Phoenix may decline a Wholesale Application, for any reason, at our discretion. We reserve the right to revoke our Wholesale Agreement at any time, for any reason.

This contract is governed by the laws of Queensland, Australia and the Commonwealth of Australia and such other laws which are applicable in the country where the consumer is resident.

Stella Phoenix puts a lot of effort into providing a personalised service to our customers. If you have any questions or feedback please email us at [email protected] as we love hearing from you.

Please also email us if you have a complaint. We will endeavour to respond to your complaint within 5 business days of acknowledging our receipt of it. If you submit a complaint and do not receive a written acknowledgement, please contact us again to double check it has been received.

We pride ourselves on the quality of our customer service and will make every reasonable attempt to resolve a problem or complaint to the mutual satisfaction of all parties.

In the event that you are dissatisfied with the outcome of your complaint, you may refer the complaint to the Office of the Australian Information Commissioner.

From 2019 onwards, all new Stella Phoenix pieces come with a certificate of authenticity. Each certificate will have a tracking number and other security features to prevent certificate fraud. If you receive your new item without a certificate of authenticity, or you suspect you’ve received a fraudulent item and certificate, please email us immediately at [email protected]

Please note that any suspected copy or fraud of our products, certificates, branding or IP will be referred to law enforcement agencies and vigorously pursued.

Please ensure you keep your certificate safe. If you decide to apply to ‘sell back’ your items in our pre-loved program, you will be required to provide it.

Stella Phoenix may choose to offer samples for sale at a discounted price. These items may have been worn and may also have minor faults or defects. The known faults or defects will be disclosed to the customer prior to purchase, however the customer accepts that there may be other faults or defects unknown to us. The customer purchases the product knowing it may not present or perform to the standard of a new, full priced garment. Stella Phoenix is not liable for the faults and defects on sample items and will not accept returns.

Please note that any third-party website or platform advertising discount codes for Stella Phoenix are not authorised by us, nor will be honoured.

Stella Phoenix cares first and foremost about the safety and wellbeing of our little customers. We therefore have stringent safety practices that we implement in our design. Our pieces undergo stringent quality control before being shipped to customers. This safety warning is a friendly reminder for parents, guardians and supervising adults.

Our pieces may contain small parts, including but not limited to sewn-in buttons, removable buttons, studs, sequins, beads, appliqués and other embellishments that may present a choking hazard to babies and small children.

Stella Phoenix Gift Certificates are valid for a period of 3 years and expire either on the expiration date as specified on the certificate, or in the case that the company ceases to trade or goes into liquidation.

Gift Certificates are not transferrable for cash, must be spent before the expiration date and are non refundable.

The Gift Recipient is non transferrable.

In instances where the purchase total is less than the Gift Certificate amount, no change will be given.

To redeem a Gift Certificate, customers must use the unique one time code on their certificate at the check out. Gift Certificates cannot be used in conjunction with any other offers or discounts.

In instances whereby Stella Phoenix suspects Gift Certificate fraud, the order will not be honoured, at our discretion.

If a customer submits a PayPal claim (or other third party payment provider claim) for a refund and that refund is awarded by PayPal or the other third party, the customer has 7 days to return the relevant item/s to Stella Phoenix at their own expense.

If the item is not returned within the specified timeframe, is lost or otherwise not received, without valid reason, Stella Phoenix will vigorously pursue criminal charges with law enforcement for stolen goods at our sole discretion.